Written by: Marta
12/22/2011 3:16 PM 

Are you a Passive, Assertive or Aggressive Communicator?

In relationships, Assertive Communication is usually the most appropriate, healthy type of communication.

 Part 1;  Do You…….

1)   A. Allow others to treat you, your thoughts & feelings as they wish?

B.    Stand up for your own legitimate personal rights while respecting theirs?

C.    Stand up for what you want regardless of the rights & feelings of others?

2)    A. Avoid problems?

                    B. Attack problems?

                    C. Attack the person?

             3)   A. See the rights of others more important than yours?

                    B. See the rights of others equal to yours

                    C. See your rights as more important than those of others?

             4)   A. Hope your goals will be achieved?

                   B. Work toward your goals?

                  C. Use force to reach your goals

             5)  A. Let others choose activities for you?

                   B. Choose activities for yourself?

                   C. Choose activities for others?

            A= Passive

            B=Assertive

            C=Aggressive
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